That church-registry thing sounds very complicated, but I think that its a sign that you were not meant to be together. God was looking out for you! Have a very merry Christmas and good luck
Thanks, tinygremlinqueen! I'm sorry for the late reply, I've been busy settling a new schedule from my dayjob's boss & now having a toothache :'D fortunately my relatives didn't ask much and quite understanding of the matter so it was quite the enjoyable holiday for me <3