So far, what maledom there is is, in fact, *extremely* soft and romantic, with one exception (because the girl in question is a bit jaded, and actively wants new experiences; she is enthusiastically consenting to it). The sleep sex is 100% consensual, and only happens after the woman has explicitly stated it's permitted (and if you don't initiate it as a player, it doesn't happen). Honestly, this is about the gentlest I've ever seen maledom and sleep sex.