I still can't trigger lyx to visit, is there a console command or way to edit my save to trigger her visit?
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Do not edit variables. That's how things get broken beyond repair.
Lyx will appear after you've been in a location fight (ie. tried to conquer a location), and sleep. But if anything else happens overnight it will interrupt the event, so just keep sleeping.
If you're not getting her then either you already had the scene and forgot (there's only one and it's very short) or you're running an unofficial version (such as a translated version) or else you or someone with access to your game has been messing with the variables.