Did you get them during act 2?
If you didn’t, then they’re gone. You won’t get them back.
That’s just how it is, no second chances.
Main reason why there was a warning about moving into act 3.
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Weird.
But as for saves and stuff, your best bet is checking the discord server
Hell, I may even offer to tweak your save to “fix” certain mistakes you may have made.