Oh good question ! That make me wonder something more : there will be possibilities to change our character without loosing anything ? Like, we can use influence on others who have a light our on ourselve even if we don't have a light ^^
the ways the rules work, you cant change yourself at all, even when marked. that means you'll have to rely on others to make the changes you want through persuasion and deals :3
we showcase this idea a bit with Reese/Renae in the next update!