is your character a dom bottom or sub bottom? if your sub bottom the scene won't play unless you lose the fight, while if your dom bottom the scene won't play unless you win. so basically, if you wanna be submissive, reduce your strength as much as possible and be submissive in the stat menu instead of dominant, but if you wanna be in control, blast your strength to high hell and be dominant in the stat menu instead of submissive.