In my understanding, meady would've got what she wanted, and flowey would've too, but meady already went sorta crazy, so things turned out like that. They both just wanted a friend. It's just that for meady, it got too lonely there.
I wish it would've worked out.
Maybe it would've if flowey was stubborn on her original request, to be friends with meady.. it seems simpler to get meady to tone it down than to make a friend in her world, though that may just be because it's what I know more of.
The mead is brewed with red, green, and blue. The ingredients and the product are comparable, though the example is with a reversed equation.