When you reach your goal and find the answers you seek. ONLY because those you trust and confide in won't give you the whole story, leaving things unknown. The unknown invites both fear and curiosity. Does the unknown give answers? Does it bite back? Does it do both? Things get mixed up way to easily when we are way too emotional and not able to be logical enough. Sometimes though you have to make a mistake even if you know its a mistake, in order to learn something vital you are missing.