The fact that he makes us look like the bad person/invalidates our feelings etc is for example gaslighting. That's what i also found online:
"Gaslighting is an insidious form of manipulation and psychological control. Victims of gaslighting are deliberately and systematically fed false information that leads them to question what they know to be true, often about themselves. They may end up doubting their memory, their perception, and even their sanity. Over time, a gaslighter’s manipulations can grow more complex and potent, making it increasingly difficult for the victim to see the truth."
But i don't have a problem with that in a game it mostly caught me off guard ^^