So i cant find the war room i had a older version and now re-downloaded but i just cant see it
You need to progress far enough in Act Three that Jessica shows it to you. Just follow your lead :)
I guess but I'm stuck them I idk where to continue, I'm at the part with the girl in the fire a apartment
Then you're in Act Two... the War Room doesn't open up until Act Three. Just follow your leads and the girls' heart menu hints.