I was wondering if you could use a more gender neutral term for the non-binary player, when it says “people find you handsome” you could instead make it “people find you attractive” or something along those lines?
Around the time it was pretty common for men and women alike to be called handsome, so it could definitely work as a neutral ground. It was also used for women that fit the “Fem-fatal” statement.
Though I see where you’re coming from with attractive being a more generalized term!