Well hey, it seems like you enjoyed some aspects of Hearts Faster Than Light, and I'm glad for that.
With that being said, I'm not sure why you are telling me all this about gender, specifically about the discourse around non-binary people. This work is not trying to convince anyone to feel a certain way about trans and non-binary or gender fluid people.
As a trans person, and the author of this work, I wanted to write a story that reflected me and the people I care about. My intention is to celebrate queer identities through over the top characters and personalities, this is done regardless of who is or isn't made uncomfortable by it. If the characters and themes in this story make you uncomfortable, then that's on you.
That being said, I can't in good conscious leave your comment up on this page, since I want this to be a cozy place for the trans and non-binary people in my audience. I understand that you are not coming from a place of anger. It's clear to me that you are only trying to understand me and people like me, so I hope you don't take too much offense from me deleting your comment.