I get what you're saying because like you mentioned in the post, there are ppl in other games that asks "Will X top Y in the next update" or similar. I was just stating my perspective on the matter. It's interesting that people actually care about that, but I can understand why. When I watch other gay media (like porn), it's VERY important that certain guys fit their roles. Some guys I can only watch top, bottom, or verse. But that only matters because I'm just trying to bust a nut. I don't have that intention with video games, (except Robin Morningwood, that game broke me.) so that's why it doesn't matter as much for me. Good discussion, by the way.
I understand where you're coming from. It can be hard to do that when you're focused on actually playing the game and reading the story. I personally do enjoy that as I feel like it's more satisfying since I had anticipation before that and I know the characters. I'm glad you enjoyed this discussion in any case.