no, flirting is a behaviour that represents the desire to 'bone', so while you are right on other accounts, you're wrong on that point.
no, you dont get to behave in a way that signifies an invitation, but then play the victim if the person acts on that invitation, no matter who you are.
thats like going to a nightclub, or wearing basically nothing, and then crying victim when someone makes a pass at you.
its that exact kinda attitude of "girls can do anything, no matter how immoral, and you should never face any consequences for your freely chosen choices, cos female", that has fucked up this batshit crazy world full of cucks.