Hi, VersaceHostile! Nice to meet you~
I'm really happy to hear that many people are silently supporting and reading my updates.
What happened to you sounds really similar to what happened to me. In fact, I've already had disagreements with mom in law during my prewedding phase. It involved a dress. So you see, I already prepared a dress in advance for the casual outing photo but she didn't like it. I already said it's fine because the photographer already said OK. But then one day, my fiance told me his mom asked me to go out with her to the mall. I thought okay, bonding? Nope, she wanted me to look for another dress with her lol, after hours of looking we found one. But then the next day, I ended up using a dress from his sister... So yes, she's overbearing and opinionated.
When we got married, I told him that I'd rather we look for a house and pay installments. But he said it's better to live with the in laws because he wanted to inherit the store, which is right next door. So I compromised--which is a mistake. I thought I can trust my husband to talk to his mom when she gets too overbearing, but no, he'd rather say to ignore her. He can't stand up to her at all.
And like what happened to you, it became everyday argument and when he keeps underestimating said problem, I... exploded.
In any case, thank you for being here, VersaceHostile.
Last week, I kept coming back here and re-read all the comments. It gave me strength and I'm slowly picking up myself. I can say I'm fine now, because I have you guys :')
Thanks again,
xoxo,
SweetChiel