I boomerposted this on Twitter forgetting about the character limit.
I'll post it here as well to see that it reaches you properly.
Hi there,
I first decided to remove you from my discord server after seeing you use other creators social media (itch) for advertising your content without consent and spreading what I percieve as toxicity.
I have noticed that this seems to be due to some arguments between you and some other creators, and while I am not really involved I can't help to see the thinly veiled threats and underhanded actions made.
As creators in an indie community such as the FVN community, I believe it's our responsibility to help each other out remember that we're all a bunch of passionate people gathered around the same genre of content.
At the same time, we're all responsible for our own platforms and the communities we build around them.
While there's always bound to be drama and arguments, and I understand that there's always frustration and anger at things others do (I get frustrated, too), taking to using each other's platforms as a vector of attack, as a creator, is in my opinion not acceptable.
On that note, from what I gather you have already taken this with discord and twitter support.
If you feel you've been treated in a ToS breaking way, instead of these threatening comments and "attacks", letting the site admins deal with it is the proper way of things.
Now: after your request I have decided to remove the ban from my discord server, feel free to join again. However, please note that subtle threats and toxicity is not something I want around my platform. I believe in forgiveness and building instead.
Remember, being defensive is not the same as being "offensive back".
Finally, I've opened up my DMs (twitter & discord). Feel free to contact me directly if you feel the need.
/G