Hello TheRandomMoth,
Thank you very much for the comment.
While we understand your concerns and believe nonbinary people and they/them pronouns are real and valid, our intention for Birds of Paradise is to deliver an experience authentic to women working in the entertainment industry. It's important to keep in mind that Robin is her own person (with quite the personality!) and her story shouldn’t be approached as a 'self-insertion'. To include the option of customizing the protagonist without adjusting the story or Robin as a character would be disingenuous to our players. We hope you understand.
Thank you again. We will definitely take care of ourselves today, and please make sure you do the same! We have plenty more games in the pipeline, and hope you can enjoy our future releases. :)