i'm really curious about this, if you'd like to elaborate. because literally anytime someone voices any level of discomfort, about anything, there's always a dude like you appearing from the bushes to try to invalidate that person's experience. and i'm genuinely intrigued... why? like, what does it feel like? is it because it makes no sense to you and it feels better to shut someone else down rather than to try and listen? is it so annoying to you that others experience things outside of your comprehension that you actually need to take the time to reply to something like this just to state that you understand what they're saying, and that you don't care?
gratitude for any insight you might have for me. :)