You can choose how your face looks, and how big butt actually is. You can also change hairstyle. You can look androgynous in the game by choosing so. There are also characters that are androgynous as well. The game isn't entirely androgynous because it has Females, dickgirls, and guys as well who look their part. Give the game a shot. Also you can turn on and off a setting called futa+ that turns the masculine characters into futa. You can even change your outfit to something you would like. I suggest you give the game a shot. Also if you want to better voice your opinions for a change you can also put it on the patreon and take a vote on it. If you aren't into this type of game that is fine. If you really want a game with more masculinity you can play A Life in Silk, which is about a boy who performs for many masculine men. Much of the fanbase prefers these types of feminine characters so the creator is doing their best they can for us.
Androgyny is having both traits that are masculine and feminine, but the degree can vary based on personal preference. To some having a masculine attitude may count, having a penis may count for many(even a "masculine penis" can count I guess). Reading the in-game dialogue depending on how you play can determine that.
Please try out the game and give feedback rather than asking for 3 years of development to be undone to please someone who doesn't even like it, support it, or play the game.