Jesus Christ, dude. That's horrible. I feel you though. I just lost my grandma and my dad on the same day. My community told me to take whatever time I needed before working on my game anymore, and that's exactly what I'm gonna tell you. We can wait. There are much more important things going on.
Until then, we support you and whatever you need to do. Your game will stay on my list and I'll be happy to hear from you and your project whenever the time is right. Go help your people.