1. Don't speak for others. No one is an expert of everyone.
2. Are you giving advice or trying to be mean? If you are giving advice your tone is mean. If you are being mean, stop. The world is overflowing with mean.
3. Here's a virtual hug. I won't pretend to understand what caused you to poo on another humans creative endeavor but if you are going through stuff, imagine a handsome stranger giving you a cozy ole hug.