didnt read amberpost, big textwall >.>
interactions:
mode:meet - is to unlock sexual actions, teach the slaves, get obedience and loyalty up, give punishment. Try first to unlock sexual actions, cause the others will be more efficient after that. I would give you a pass-to-pass, but it would be no fun, is better for you to discover the wonders of teaching slave.
mode:sex - gives you mana and loyalty, can only be used at slaves with sex unlocked.
mode:other - have fun discovering.
you will get to understand traits with time, dont bother too much with it in the beginning.
I'd reccommend you use the girl with pretty voice as w - entertainer if she has grade of commoner or above.
and give the dark elf to the brothel at red light district or find another elf to give if you wanna keep it, doesnt matter if its male/female
endurance will add one more interaction point each odd number, like, with 1 end, you get 2 interactions, with 3 end, 3 interaction, with 5 end, 4 interactions,with 7, 5 interactions, you can only go past 7 end with items boosting it.
if you are starting, I recommend you do like this:
put someone to hunt... whoever has higher courage.
put someone to cook... agi and wits affects it, but its not much important in the beginning, this should be enough to keep you alive.
w - prostituition is the most lucrative work at the beginning, w - escort being the second... but both need sex unlocked, this means, you need to have sex with the slave. Charm, end and beauty are the best stats to w - prostituition, if charm is 60+ and looks 40+ and it doesnt have any traits agaisnt (prude, monogamous, just mouse of the trait, it will tell if so) is worthy buying slave to work on it. It will rend you around 150g per day, the higher the stats the more you will get.
w - escort - needs grade commoner or above. If theres is no trait against prostituition, Charm 60+, Confidence 50+, beauty 40+ its worthy buying a slave to work on it.
remember to make then sterile with "services for slave" at the slave guild or just sell then if they get pregnant.
if you are luck to find slaves with str 2+ and end 2+ at the guild, you may consider buying up to two of them, so you can go out of town. If they can be used to the above work, use then, if not, you can aways put then to do something, just have fun there is no need to hesitate, at worse you will start again.