Yes, that is a sore point and a polarizing issue... I am definitely developing a better system for my new game.
Also, I am thinking about implementing a kind of "slightly easier mode" in the next release (1.1.5), thus allowing casual-ish players to see more of my game - as you say.
I am a casual player myself, after all! :D
Apart from that, thanks a lot for the precious feedback.
And keep an eye on the next release! ;)