The bedroom scene (after the bar event) is indeed skipable (first choice)! Since I didn't want to force an sexual intercourse on the player.
Uh ok? But I didn't want to go on a date in the first place. You don't set up dates with people you're not interested in and then afterwards say "oh sorry I have never had any interest in you whatsoever." You just don't go on the date.
Nor do I want to play a minigame, but since that's what dates apparently are in this game, the game simply 100% is not for me anyway.