Yo thank you for sharing this! I've been struggling with the same for years but haven't read much from other people going through it, and oo this is also just a cool format for an essay - hope you're doing well!
-c/constance
(RIP pretend I commented with this account lol; accidentally signed into my old one skdjcdjkn)
No worries! I appreciate you commenting on my piece--thanks for reading it! <3