I don't know if the author meant it to be a secret - I'm here, more than one year late, by the way, talking about a game which is *even* older and I feel... out of place - but you should look for a registry key called RinseSpooked, which gains the value of 1 after that you've "spooked" the guy. Edit it and bring it to 0. It's in Hkey Users, Software and few other folders obviously related to this game - you'll have to search for it carefully. Oh yes, I'm a bad guy. A silly bad guy. :P
A note for the author: I'll be honest, at first I was kinda pissed off about the fact that once the hunk is scared, he won't come back. I mean, it's supposed to be a lewd game and I wasn't really expecting anything too deep - or at least, that's what I initially thought: it felt ALMOST like taking a wrong step with a real guy, so it felt... bad. (Even if I'll admit that the multi-hands were scary).
But then I read what you wrote on your blog, I got that you actually had something else in mind, portraying the suffocating potential that any (fully o partially) unreciprocated love may have on a loved one, who escapes in front of something he does not fully grasp, because he/she's frightened. That is so powerful, it's something that probably every man (or woman) faces with, sooner or later.
...You know what? I'm actually much happier with a broken game that, as soon as it broke, revelead itself to be a cathartic experience. I really don't know what to say - thanks for your work.