Thanks for your video!
I understand that can be a bit confusing....
!!! spoiler warning !!!
as you probably saw the car key on the dresser is there in one scene and not in the other. That is the first item that needs to be selected.
You may also have seen that the family photo above the dresser is destroyed in one scene, but is still whole in the other. This is the second item.
Once these two items are selected, the door to the next room will open.
Be careful, no other items must be selected!