I understand. The first sexual interaction with Saffron is the only one that can't be avoided. It's there for a story point that will become clear later, and to demonstrate how the game handles encounters like that. Apart from that, all encounters are/will be optional.
I can imagine, it's not something I fully considered. The game is more a sort of pansexual anything-goes deal, more a pornographic detective game than it is a dating simulator, I'm not sure it's the best place to explore the differences between varying experiences of sexuality, but I'll certain finesse it a bit more into that direction. Thanks!