Thanks! I've done some quick balance / feel tweaking today, and it's feeling much smoother. The jam version here has a bug that makes it much harder to grab on to people than it should be, shame I couldn't figure the problem out yesterday but oh well :)
In the version I balance tweaked but haven't uploaded, because of making grabbing easier, I was able to make the physics of tables etc much more challenging, which gives a feel closer to what I wanted - utter chaos and nonstop dancing :p