Every quad will feel different depending on a lot of factors and settings. I suggest you go with the "Snappy 2" preset for starters, if you can confidently fly that you will be able to fly pretty much any quad in my opinion. Later you can adjust it to make it fly more like your own quad(s).
That's just general advice of course, not really a specific answer to your question - If anybody else has any other suggestions for realistic physics settings please feel free to share.