Hi!
As ava.elrose said, you can turn individual settings in WickedWhims off. There are no plans to create a mod that you're describing, as WickedWhims itself can function the way you want it.
Also, please note that this is a WonderfulWhims related site, and not a suitable place to discuss NSFW features.
You'd have to go into the Settings and turn off switches for each of these settings that you don't want in the game.
It might seem like a lot, but it'd just take you 2-3 minutes. After you've done that, you can click the Settings Control option, export your settings, and then just import them into every new save, so you don't have to go through every option again every time you start a new game.
