Yes the long awaited wait button is coming on May 7th along with a bunch of other features. The event you're seeing with the receptionist is most likely the dummy event that places her on the other end of the counter, it wont show up on the map in the version 2 update.
The turn timer has been cranked up in many of the new quests. The development of the game is oriented around replayability, so I'm not as scared of events not being seen in a single game as I am of scene repetition. There will be more erotic options in the future as new love interests and rivals get added to the game. The types of characters are voted on by my supporters, but I don't think that the animal traders would win too many votes...
Thanks for playing!