I deleted my original comment as it was ass!
OK, I did what you all advised me in the comments and yes, I am really getting a lot more into it now! I can now understand why the points system is there to add immersion to the game. I am guessing it will make it a very long game, but well worth playing. I admit I did find cheats online for this title and was tempted to use them but thought better of it. Now I am glad that I didn't. I did know about the "talk" option, but it seemed to be ages for one to show up. Also, I sometime clicked on the "not interested" boxes and that I noticed was wrong true! Even if my morals didn't want me to have sex with every woman in the hotel so far I needed to to play the game properly! Then I tried the differing times of the day as suggested by another player and this gave me new "talk" options. I guess I wasn't playing the game correctly. Thanks for all of your suggestions! I will keep playing this game till the end!