Aah... I can't believe that we like the same things! I feel the same!
Howl's Moving Castle is probably my go-to-movie whenever I feel down/sad. I'm also shipping Chihiro and Haku (the dragon boy) from Spirited Away!
I've also watched Hotarubi No Mori E a long time ago and I still remember it today!! My heart ached so much and I cried a river Q_Q I had to look for a fanfic to wash away the sadness--but yeah, it was a great movie!
As for Toradora... can I call you sister? The coincidence is too much! I've also watched this! It's rare to have a normal/average-looking protagonist and oh boy, it exceeded my expectations >///<
Surprisingly enough, I don't know any other vampire animes except for Vampire Knight O.O
But I have lots of fantasy anime recommendations for you! Wolf Children: Ame & Yuki, The Boy and The Beast, Ronja: The Robber's Daughter, Kemono no Souja: Erin, The Girl Who Leapt Through Time (sad one), Fuse: Teppo Musume (also a sad one), Summer Wars, Kimi no Na Wa....
...I hope I didn't overwhelm you x_x;
it's been a while since I met a kindred spirit!
And don't worry about late replies! I do the same x'D *Huugs