Also can you help me with the first girl we had sex with, going to the ruins after we spoke to the queen, Ive legit looked for 40 mins and still cant find where to go: edit2: i went to the doctor already and did all the farm work and I dont know how to get to the ruins again: edit3:ok I found where to go but can you tell me where to get the equipment from niara and where to find the ruins pls I need help.