Are you on our Discord by chance? It would be really helpful to talk this through further in real time. https://discord.gg/Xv8b74H
It sounds like the build on VRP could be an earlier version where we didn't have a 'save' system in yet and we allowed the players to choose which Mistress to go to. Now that we have the save system in, player progress is automatically tracked and you visit the Mistress by selecting her 'teleport' point in the Main Entry. I don't remember us ever having something that lets you choose what a Mistress does to you. Hrm.
Yes, we definitely have new content that has the Mistress telling you what to do to yourself. Such as masturbate for her or edge.