hey that's a really good note, and i'm so very sorry for triggering your dysphoria! i definitely made a couple of really thoughtless assumptions-- i'm a transmasc person with bottom dysphoria who prefers to top so i would have chosen to play with an "outie", and i think i subconsciously projected my experience onto other trans people, which was not very considerate of me at all! trying to write inclusive sex that allows for a variety of bodies and experiences has been a challenge, so i really appreciate the critique. something a friend suggested which i didn't have time to implement was for the player-character to have the option to use a strap-on in that scene-- does that seem like a good solution to you?
i also definitely agree about giving more options to tap out of sex acts, as the game currently only allows people to tap out at the *start* of the sex scene. allowing players to both give and rescind consent to sex is really important to me, so i will be more conscientious of this when working on the full game. thanks!