i feel silly but i can't find the gramaphone? sasha told me it was in the "ballroom" of the second floor, but i can't seem to find that room, unless it is the tea room? but no gramaphone in there either when i invite others to teatime (by the way, i accidentally went to teatime with nobody and it wouldn't let me leave the room, despite clicking yes when prompted). the rooms i can reach on floor two are; library, spa room, gareth's bedroom, the mirror room, and locked tea time room. thank you ;;
edit: did all the stuff, found it on the third floor!