I see, I didn't know netorase was a term. When using the letters NTR I always assumed netorare.
Now that I learned that there is more to it (netorare, netori, netorase), moving forward I'll stop using the NTR abbreviation and just use the whole word instead to avoid confusion. Thanks for clarifying!
Basically bad vibes are a big no-no, and good vibes are an optional yeh-yeh.