That's exactly what I was trying to do. For the player's gender to take precedence over the game character. This is especially important to me because, from what you're saying, you have a range of sensitivities that doesn't limit you to just one spectrum of sexuality. A strength that's too often underestimated. (I hope I haven't made a mistake in what I'm saying. Don't hesitate to tell me if I have.)
Thank you for this response and for taking the time to write it. I cherish this kind of comment like a treasure. All the best to you and see you soon. :D