Soft doms and bratty subs were literally just introduced and need some work to get them to where dom currently is. Like, most scenes don't take either of those into account right now. Once that's addressed, things will go back to normal
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PC Dom quite literally got updated to the point where it almost completely matches NPC Dom and then new rules got added, so I have no idea what you're talking about when you say Dom hasn't really been touched. Also, I'm in the official discord. I also have no idea what you're talking about when you say a lot of people ask for the same thing. I use the search feature and Doms don't come up very much in the past few months unless asking about the mechanics of it. I get this is something you want, but a bit of patience and grounding would do you good here