I really loved this and as a viet-american who has spent a lot of time in queer/trans centric communities (after being obviously cast out by visually and socially conservative asian communities, since I "wasn't the right kind of expensive and proper looking heterosexual cisgender asian,") I ostensibly ended up searching in queer/trans grounds that I didn't immediately notice were all-white exclusionary with an implication no one speaks that "white is right" but that everyone silently knows to be true can be suffocating in a way you can't see when you're in it.
and, an issue that's really degrading and grating is that so much of queer/trans communities that are white-dominated also have a weird orientalist air that's hard to pin down but can be explained by bizarre and fetishistic notions about japanese media where the notion of japanese people's humanity is some kind of spectacle, fascination, or used as "evidence of elite education and being cultured." this also extends to attitudes about all asians, since to whites there's not much difference between japanese people and chinese people and korean people, and also no distinguishing or discernment between the difference from east to southeast asia.
I think you did an incredible succinct and poignant job capturing some of the frustrations of orientalism and anti-asian racism. really good work