Ok there's a couple things wrong with this analogy you're doing.
"I said “we are giving you money” because you’re acting like we support you for some reason other than this game.". Yes, there are a lot of supporters of Starmaker, but the same stands for Roundscape, generalizing as "we support you for this one and not the other" is just plain wrong. The development of Starmaker is not dependent on money from patreon, even at its starts when there was not a "huge" following the plan has always been to complete by 2.0 and the steam release and this has been made clear from the get-go.
How is me explaining that the game is fully free, or any of my other statements coming across as telling people to "stfu and wait", I'm stating why a way of thinking is wrong or that the update is set as 2026 at the moment as there is not even an estimate date, we don't want to make even an estimate date than then people will complain about, and the content that we want to make public knowledge has already being advised on the "Planned Features" post. I have taken the time to explain why there is no "progress bar" advising how the update is going and always making sure to advise the update is taking long but that it is happening. Showing how people that just pass by a message and create a narrative is wrong and showing proof of what they claim being wrong.
How does any of the things I have mentioned in this post and before show as a "stfu and wait" attitude, when I'm taking the time of the day to actually explain and talk with people.
That's it for me on this comment.