I very much understand your position, and truly if someone doesn't want to play BQ because they don't want to risk seeing any fetish that they don't care for, I really can't blame them and I totally get it.
The reason I'm going with the "smorgasbord" approach is that I want to keep the player guessing and surprising them throughout the whole experience, if I only played to one kink the entire time it would get very predictable in my opinion.