It's a complicated issue, and nobody wants to talk about it. I assume those who are racialized know also deep down regarding the fundamental problem about all of this, and how it cannot be said out loud. And I assume those who are not racialized simply do not want to speak about it at all, for a variety of cowardly reasons.
Yes, it sucks, in this anglo-centric world, to not be white. It sucks to exist as a set piece, a concept, a background object. How much more will be stolen from us and reclaimed as white? I've laid awake at night thinking about this. I think about british museums and stolen land, stolen cultures, stolen people. I think about how we either assimilate or die.
I guess I've chosen to die. Thank you for the kind words. I do not think any such community exists.