Uh... It's 2 to 1 right now, dude. If you're playing numbers, get the numbers on your side. You claim it's "well known" and "not obscure" but it's extremely uncommon in gay media in my experience, and you really need to dig deep to find a single instance in gay media.
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If i am playing numbers 2:1 shows clear interest, if you think everyone shares the same exact kinks i don't you are even educated enough to count and it should be 1:1. And what i said was just an example, many other common fantasies involving gay people with straight people exist, but only the example was focused on.