If you having trouble with getting the attention. You have to wear cow related items.
Like for the abduction bit, where the player is abducted?
Sleep in the farm, and it's luck based on how cow you look like to be beamed up.
I forget, how do I change what I wear while sleeping. I swear that was a feature at some point, but now I can't find it.
Oh you have to change on the sanctum in the manu to keep the clothes on.
Finally, thank you.
No problem :)