yeah i was wondering why our self worth would go down if we say we love sally..my mom reminds of sally a lot she might sometimes comes as overbearing but i can understand the reasoning and love behind her actions and she worries a lot and just wants the best for me and i don't feel like it has anything with self worth. i really feel bad for sally i wish we could be kinder to him and that our self worth wouldn't go down just because we love him