As another lesbian I didn't get that from SOTA. I was very happy with the amount of screentime the female LIs had. Honestly I forgot the male LIs existed at times bc I barely saw anyone other than Marane and Sylas. I wondered if the guys were involved in the plot at all 😅
Maybe it's bc I didn't try the male routes at all (even platonically)? I'm assuming they appear more in the plot if you do.