nope! No discord for this jam and you'd literally have to pay me to make and moderate one because they are so much work and can cause so much drama pretty quickly, from my experience.
I suggest checking around for a general queer game dev discord or just making a thread about your WIPs here. (Especially since it seems a lot of folks use discord as a way to get distracted and never finish their project lol)
Good luck! You're more than welcome to make your own discord btw